Peter:
Me
i just don't even know what to do anymore.
i feel like all we're doing is fighting anymore :/:/
and i don't know if i'm instigating them without knowing it
or if he's just being that much of an ass.
Peter
Yeah, it seems like a rough time
You guys need to sit down and talk it out
Then you'll know if he's the ass or if you are.
(or if it's mutual)
Me
it has to be over the phone, with the 150 miles between us
and every time we do, we'll just start to work something out, then he says something else that upsets me
Peter
Yeah, but you guys can do it over the phone. You just need to really try and talk it out
Well, I'd take that as a sign that it's at least partially him instigating
Me
and on top of that, he keeps bringing up old fights....i guess he never got his chest clear about them?
i don't knoiw
*know
i don't have anything else to say about them, and I keep telling him that
but he's apparently still upset at me for things from a long time ago.
Peter
Hmm, that's no good
He's gotta let to learn to let the small shit from the past go
Me
from what he said it isn't small shit to him, which is fine with me
but i don't know what else he wants me to say
Peter
Yeah, that's a hard nut to crack
Me
what am i supposed to do about things that have already happened?
Peter
You can
't do shit
Sorry, keyboard slipped
Me
no worries
and exactly what I told him
Peter
Yeah, I know you told him - you and I handle these things similarly.
We don't let shit slide that easy.
Me
and another thing, when he's upset with me, he sure lets me know
Peter
Yeah, like too much?
Me
but if i'm upset with him, he kinda just says whatever about it
Peter
Yeah, that's also no good
Me
no not too much, but he'll keep ringing it back up.
Peter
That probably needs to stop, ASAP
Me
i asked him why he kept bringing up old stuff, and i guess Claudia was talking with him about me and she brought a lot of it back up
and when he and i didn't talk for the day i was upset at him, he had his best friend try to talk to me and see how i was feeling why i was upset blah blah blah
Peter
Hmm
Wow
Me
and i told him that that's between me and him and no one else
Peter
That's no good
Me
and he didn't seem to understand that.
Peter
Ugh
This isn't sounding so great, babe
Me
i know :(:(
but I just don't know what to do about it
Peter
Yeah, I'm not sure what to tell you
Me
i can't handle all the mess that comes with a breakup right now
Peter
Becuase if I were in your situation, I'd be pretty conflicted.
Me
haha
extremely
add in old feelings for a good friend
makes it that much more interesting
Peter
Yeah
150 miles is a bad distance to break up over.
Me
exactly :/:/
Peter
It'd have to via phone, or something, at best, plus tons of drama
Me
plus the fact that he's a sig, which means if his feelings are super hurt, all of his brothers could end up hating me
and i don't think i could lose that many friends
especially over something like this
Peter
Well, you can't let the fear of losing friends keep you in the relationship.
Because that's a really unfair relationship.
Me
i know :/:/
Peter
At the same time, I know that will mke it hurt more when it ends, but there will always be the Pete's and Santi's there regardless.
And not all the Sig Chi's would hate you, you're too awesome.
Me
way to make me cry before noon, Peter :P:P
Peter
Sorry
<3<3
Me
lol
Peter
words of love
Me
i know
Peter
I almost want to make "Way to make me cry before noon, Peter" my status
Me
go for it
Peter
Way to make me bust a gut before noon, Courtney
Me
lol
Peter
But, in all seriousness, do what you gotta do, babe.
Me
i don't even know what to say
Peter
Yeah, it's hard sometimes
Me
i guess it'll all work out
somehow, anyway
Peter
Yeah, it all does
At the end of the day, Pete will still be there, yelling at Boyo to hit the bong again.
Megan:
Megan
so i hear from pete u r having Jason troubles
Me
yeah :/:/
i don't even know what to do with him anymore.
Megan
are you guys just too different?
or is the distance what is hurting u
Me
the distance is hurting him
i'm dealing
he's acting like a whiny baby.
Megan
yea
Me
i told him that him saying things like "i miss you so much" and all that ick 20 million times a day was driving me nuts
so he said fine, i won't say anything again
i'll keep it to myself
and when i tried to explain its not that i don't want him to tell me when he's upset, that i just need him to be okay with the distance because its going to be like this for a while
he didn't seem to get it.
then he was hurt that when i visited merced i didn't spend every single minute with him
and the only reason why i didn't was because he didn't have anything he wanted to do
he ended up playing computer games while i sat there bored, and people got a hold of me and made plans, then he got upset
Megan
ok i am going to be sister honest (aka to honest)
Me
yeah
Megan
you guys are not right for eachother
he is a nice guy but he is a "Spend every moment and hold my hand" guy
you are a "I like you but I have a life" girl
Me
i'm starting to see that, but don't know how to approach this with him :/:/
Megan
yea that i do not know either
Me
he's going to a rave thursday/friday
claudia bought his ticket
Megan
wow
Me
and then he tried to get me to go.
hah
a
Megan
yea that sounds like as much fun as a poke in the eye with a sharp stick
Me
seriously
and he asked me like a million times you sure you sure? i want you to go, it won't be the same without you, you should go
after me explaining i shouldn't spend the money and have no way of getting there, and that it would be too irresponsible for me to go.
he doesn't seem to understand that when I say no i mean it.
Megan
hmm
he is an odd one
Me
plus, he still throws in the extremely unneccesary guilt trip at the end of every message when we're fighting
after i've asked him to stop.
they don't work on me, they just make me extremely angry that you're trying to use them on me.
Megan
wow
that is insane
Me
i don't know what to do with him anymore.
thanks for listening, you guys.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
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